July Well Baby Check and New Pictures!

On July 18th, Jax had his July well baby check (wbc).  There weren't any huge changes.

*He now weighs 23 lbs. and is 30 in. long. This is the first time that he hasn't gained more than one pound in a month, I think that he's getting more active!

*Jax is eating about 7 oz. of formula every 12 hours, which doesn't seem like very much, so I'm wondering if he is starting to eat some food.

*He has two teeth on top and two teeth on the bottom.

*He's still working on walking.  He is walking around furniture, he hasn't started standing on his own quite yet.

Here is his new picture.  I can't believe how big he is getting! Such a big boy! Part of me wants to freeze him like this, so that he doesn't grow anymore between now and when we go and get him!

Oatmeal Cake

I don't know why, but lately I have been missing my Grandma Mayer like crazy! I know not everyone out there knew Grandma Mayer and I feel really bad for you, because she was the most amazing person EVER! I can't believe that she's been gone for over 5 years. It just doesn't seem possible.

Anyway, I've been thinking so much about her.  I don't know if it is because we added a new baby to the family that she will never meet or the fact that Jax will never get to know her. Or maybe it's because the whole family is going to be getting together this weekend for the annual Mayer family campout and it is during those times that I miss her the most.

So I decided that I needed a little reminder of Grandma and I decided to TRY and make her oatmeal cake.  Oatmeal cake was a staple at Grandma's. I remember many, many times going to her house for coffee and she would have a pan of it on the counter.

I did a little research and found her recipe (thank you, Aunt Cheryl) and I got started.  There was one point in time when I was working on the frosting which is definitely the best part and it said to boil for 10 minutes stirring constantly.  So it boiled and I stirred and stirred and stirred. I was thinking there is no way that this is right, 10 minutes?!?!?  I wished that I could call Grandma, I wish that I could hear her voice one more time, and one more time get a little bit of Grandma's advice, but I can't and although I have years and years of wonderful memories, I could have really used her help on this one.

Long time no blog...

Well, it's been awhile since I've written.  There's been a couple of reasons. One of the reasons was that my family was blessed the beginning of July when my sister gave birth to a little girl, Sophie Ann.  She is just a doll! So, I have been making a lot of extra trips to Iowa City to see her.

Sweet, Sweet Sophie

Another reason I haven't written is because it has kind of been a roller coaster month in the adoption world. In June, we had heard that the Korean ministry had decided that there would be no new emigration permits (EP) applied for or approved, but they did say that there would be permits in July.

The emigration permit gives a child permission to leave Korea to live in the United States. It is the last piece of paperwork that needs to be filed. So, no new permits in June added one more month to our wait.

Well, we found out in July that there would be no new permits AGAIN! So, again another month is added to our wait to bring our son home.

Needless to say each time I got one of those emails there is a wave of emotions. I go from angry to sad to hopeful and back to angry and sad. I thank God for Steve because he really is my sanity through this whole thing! I'm so very blessed to have him in my life!

So here we are, it's the end of July. I'm asking for lots of prayers that the EP situation gets figured out.  That things start moving very quickly and Jax gets home as soon as possible!

More gifts for Jax!

Today, Steve and I met his mom, Rosanne, for lunch at Buffalo Wild Wings and shopping! It was great to catch up.  Rosanne picked up a couple of things that we have been needing for Jax. We got a stroller and high chair. I'm pretty excited about the stroller, but Steve won't put it together for me yet.  I have a feeling I can talk him into it soon!